Safety Center

Your safety comes before every match.

Dating should feel exciting, not risky. Persona is built to protect you — with verification, screening, and AI that works quietly in the background — but a few habits keep you even safer. Here's everything worth knowing, plus real help if you ever need it.

If you're in immediate danger

Call your local emergency number (911 in the US) right away. To report someone on Persona, open their chat → menu → Report, or email safety@persona-us.com. We review reports and act — typically within 24 hours.

The essentials
01 — ONLINE

Staying safe online

Never send money or gift cards. Keep chats on Persona until you trust someone. Don't share your address, financial details, or passwords. Be wary of anyone who moves fast or won't video-call.

02 — IN PERSON

Meeting safely

Meet in a public place the first few times. Tell a friend where you'll be and when. Arrange your own transport there and back. Stay sober enough to stay in control, and trust your gut — leave if anything feels off.

03 — CONSENT

Consent & wellbeing

Consent is ongoing and can be withdrawn anytime. No one is owed anything for a date, a gift, or a conversation. Look after your sexual health and take relationships at your own pace.

Know the common scams

Most harm on dating apps comes from a handful of predictable playbooks. If you can name them, you can spot them.

Green flags
  • Happy to video-call and meet locally
  • Moves at a comfortable pace
  • Consistent story, real-time photos
  • Respects a "no" the first time
Red flags
  • Asks for money, crypto, or gift cards
  • Professes love within days
  • Always has an excuse not to meet or video
  • Pushes you to move to another app fast
  • Romance scams: a fast, intense connection that leads to a request for money or "help." Never send funds to someone you haven't met.
  • Sextortion: someone pressures you into intimate photos, then threatens to share them. Don't pay and don't panic — stop contact, keep evidence, report to us and to authorities.
  • Catfishing / fake profiles: stolen photos and invented identities. Ask to video-call; our verification and AI checks help, but stay alert.
  • Investment / "pig-butchering": a match who steers talk toward a "can't-miss" investment. It's a scam.

How Persona protects you

Safety isn't only your job — it's built into the product.

  • 18+ only, enforced at signup and on our servers.
  • Selfie verification confirms real people; the verified badge can't be forged from the app.
  • Content screening: photos and messages are automatically checked for objectionable content before they reach anyone.
  • One-tap report & block on any message, photo, or person — we act on objectionable content and abusive users, typically within 24 hours.
  • Private by design: verification selfies and chat media are stored privately and served through short-lived links. See our Security page.

Support resources (US)

If you need to talk to someone, these confidential services are available 24/7. If you're outside the US, contact your local emergency services and support lines.

Emergency
Immediate danger
911
RAINN — Sexual Assault Hotline
Confidential, 24/7
800-656-4673
988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline
Call or text, 24/7
988
National Domestic Violence Hotline
Confidential, 24/7
800-799-7233
NCMEC CyberTipline
Report exploitation of minors
CyberTipline.org
FTC Fraud Report
Report scams & fraud
ReportFraud.ftc.gov

Report a concern

Something feel wrong? Tell us. In the app, open a conversation → menu → Report or Block, or long-press a specific message or photo to report it. You can also email safety@persona-us.com. Reports are confidential, and we review and act on them — usually within 24 hours. Read our Community Guidelines for what's not allowed.